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Ok tell us your life story to date

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I was born in Henderson, grew up in Wellington and moved back when I was 10. Now I’m out here in Glen Eden, so I’m a Westie! My parents split when I was one. That was fine, it was easier because I missed the rough part. I’ve grown up with different families and step siblings through the years, and it’s been kinda cool to have step brothers/sisters on and off. 

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Did you know what you wanted to do when you left school?

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I had an idea of what I should do, because there is an expectation you should know. I didn’t want to be that person who didn’t know. So I decided to do something arty. I can’t do anything without a creative element to it or I go a bit crazy. I want to do a Bachelor of Creative Enterprise. But I knew I needed a gap year because I found school really hard and I didn’t like it a lot. 

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We’ve heard a lot that year 13 in schools today is super stressful, is that something you felt?

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When it came to exams I was like, “I’m so stressed, it would be easier if I was dead!” And now you look back and think why would I say that, that’s crazy! But at the time it’s just the stress you put on yourself. I also think my whole life I’ve struggled with learning and keeping up with people, so it felt like, “these exams are my whole life and if I fail this my life is over!” It’s because you’re told school is your life and the one thing you need to think about.

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Did you see a problem with youth and mental health in your own school?

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Yeah, like looking back everyone was depressed and talking about how depressed they were. But because everyone is depressed it feels normal so you don’t think it’s weird. Now I look back and think there’s a big issue with kids having anxiety and depression but they don’t know they have it. At one point I found myself lost at school and was sad all the time. I told my Mum I wanted to go to therapy but she never got around to it. So I never went. But instead of wallowing in it, I pulled myself out of it and thought, “what can I do to be happier? Think less about school, remind yourself it’s not the end of the world, that no one is thinking you’re a loner and remember your family love you…” I found myself not depressed anymore. It was super weird because you can’t normally pull yourself out of it but sometimes you can. 

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What does success look like for you in five years time?

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I don’t know, I’ll figure it out. I could do anything and my parents would be supportive, but I just feel like I want them to say, “Oh, you should do this because it’s successful!” I’m just left to my own devices, and I don’t trust myself to make those decisions. 

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So do you feel like you’ve got too many options?

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Yeah there’s so much out there that you’re overwhelmed with choices. I want to do something I love, and also be able to support myself, and I’m always asking, “Is this the right decision?” 

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Your generation are famously more into settling down than previous generations. Is it still cool to root around and get out and go crazy as a teenager?

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Thinking back on school, there was a few who thought it was cool to fuck around and stuff. But the more I think about it, I know more people who want to be in a happy, warm comfortable relationship because school is so stressful. Why would you add all this other stress into your life?

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If you could use three words to sum up how your generation are feeling what would they be?

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Scared, lost, worried…This is our generation, the worried ones.

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Do you feel like an adult?

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No! I don’t trust myself to make good decisions.You’re not really an adult until you’ve gone and done something super adult-y like live in a shared flat. I don’t know if I could manage moving out right now and sorting my life and where I’m going. I think I’d want to move out when I know I could live alone and have a supportive job. 

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Ok tell us your life story to date I was born in …

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